Before your visit

Rehearse the surgeon visit

Pick the part of you that hurts. Get a short list of questions to bring. Then practise saying them to an invented surgeon, so the words are ready when the real fifteen minutes start.

This is for a planned visit. If something is getting worse fast (new weakness or numbness, a change in bladder or bowel control, a hot swollen joint with a fever, or pain after a fall or injury), get care today: call your doctor or go to urgent care. In an emergency call 911. If you are in crisis, call or text 988.

How this works, and what it cannot do

1. Your questions for this visit

Where is the problem?
How does the pain behave? (optional)

Not sure? The joint check at arthritisrisk.com asks a few questions and can send the answer back here. For back pain, doesyourbackhurt.com checks the warning signs first.


2. Practise the conversation

Six short visits, two or three turns each. Pick the one closest to yours.

3. Where to go next

Sources (checked 2026-09-29)

The scripted lines and the questions lean on these public pages. They are general education, not a plan for your case.

  1. AAOS OrthoInfo, Arthritis of the Knee: nonsurgical options (exercise, physical therapy, weight loss, braces, injections); blood tests help diagnose rheumatoid arthritis.
  2. AAOS OrthoInfo, Total Knee Replacement: most daily activities resume in 3 to 6 weeks; some pain with activity and at night is common for several weeks.
  3. AAOS OrthoInfo, Total Knee Replacement Exercise Guide: a full recovery takes several months.
  4. Medicare.gov, Second surgical opinions: Part B covers a second opinion before medically necessary, non-emergency surgery.
  5. HealthCare.gov, Prior authorization: some plans require approval before they cover a service.
  6. NIH NIAMS, Back Pain: Diagnosis, Treatment, and Steps to Take: the exam, imaging such as MRI, and who treats back pain.